You may choose to skip this whole post altogether. I just really need to voice this out. Cox everytime i hear stories like that, i get angry. Angry becox the women in almost every stories, appear to be weak.
I am SO SICK of reading/ hearing of cases about LOVE and SEX and how woman ALWAYS victimised themselves..
Girl broke up with boyfriend and playing the melodramatic victim, especially when the guy is currently seeing someone else, AFTER the breakup.
If you quietly still love the fella, nobody will diss you. Everyone has the right to love someone, anyone. But when you openly shows it to everyone around you, by..
-Blogging about it
-Facebooking it
-Tweeting it
-Sending text messages to the guy, and secretly wishing that it'd cause problems between him and the current gf so somehow, you still occupy a part of his life (ADMIT THIS)
-Sending text messages to the guy at the oddest hours, hoping that he'd feel bad for you that you are still awake at 5am, thinking about him..
-Messaging him on special days that used to mean something to you two and end with a "i know all these doesn't matter to you anymore, i understand why. Just hope we can still be friends" (DON'T BLUFF, LOSER SHIT)
-Buying something for him and asking if you could meet him to pass it to him (NO, THROW IT AWAY)
-mention on social platform that you're sad, you're drunk, you're fucked up, you're crying, you're lost, you wish that you can turn back time, you want to believe again, your heart still aches, you're still hanging on and for that you hate yourself........
HEY HEY HEY, STOP IT, YOU JUST NEED A VIBRATOR, DUDE!
On a side note, i really hate emo girls. IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT THEM. And it's not even in the cute, funny way. I am all about me as well, but it's positive stuff!!! Them, it's always negative, moody, sad, same story over and over again, to different people. Desperate for the world to hear their side of the story, and they expect people to, what? Sympathize with them? Agree with them that they are very poor thing? Or agree with them that the current gf of the ex bf is not as good as they are.
SURE, that's why they are current girlfriend, you are EX-Girlfriend -.-
You don't need to prove anything to anyone, during a healing process for your broken heart. You just need to prove to yourself that you can love and take care of yourself. 不要整天扮可怜.
Tie your hair up, wash your face, dress up nice, head out, work, buy a dildo, keep yourself occupied, don't, DON'T, DO NOT talk about your ex bf whole day when you're out with people. Honestly, nobody gives a shit, there's a reason why it's ex, meaning it's over. Time to? MOVE ON.
And don't go home after gathering to tweet/ Facebook shout emo shit like
"when the crowd is gone, lights are out, my heart bleeds.. Again.." or
"Surrounded by many but my life is empty.. Without you.." or
"I try to ask myself to let you go, forced a smile to everyone i meet, tell myself i'm happy, but inside, i'm still the girl you left behind"
EEEEEEeeeeee! I say already also erxin! Eh i never copy anywhere one hor, i made these up myself. HAHAHA! Sorry no, i was NEVER a irritating ex-girlfriend. In fact, i totally despise girls who try all ways to stay in the ex-boyfriends' lives.
In hokkien, we say "Pa Si Buay Zao" Lolol! It means, beat die also won't go away.
So, girl power, is to be able to stick and hang around, act all pitiful thus the guy you want can't bear to kick you out of his life?
Girls seeing married men getting all pissed and saddened when the guy is with the wife/ family. The only incident i think you can relate to would be Wendy Chong the psycho bitch.
I don't care if Jack Neo is a dick, or not, but that woman is a confirm psycho. Everyone gotta know where they stand. Wanna be mistress? GO AHEAD! Just stay kept, you know, there's a reason why mistress is a.k.a Kept Woman. Don't try to break into fame / come to light with your identity, NOTHING GLORIOUS about it. GROSS MUCH!!!!!!!! ARGH. See! Perfect example of not knowing where they stand.
I have nothing against girls seeing attached/ married guy. I mean who knows? The guy's marriage might really be in the most shitty situation, you happen to meet the guy, fall in love, decides to wait for him patiently while he settle shit with the wife. Maybe the wife is a major psycho, you can be his pillar and strength of support. Maybe the wife and the guy REALLY don't love each other no more, maybe you are the one for him, the one who will be with him til old, WHATEVER, but now, YOU ARE A MISTRESS, you behave like one.
If you sign up for a relationship like this, to fill in the second place, then live with it. You can feel sad when he choose to leave halfway through a date to go home to his wife/ children, but you have no rights to be angry, no rights to demand for anything, no rights to feel betrayed even if the guy has pity-sex with the wife.
Why so unfair, you'd always asked. You are having fun with someone's husband, WHAT IS FAIR? *rolleyes*
So this is girl power? Part-occupying someone else's stuff and feeling all shitty it's not fully yours, when it rightfully belongs to someone else.
Girls who are especially drawn to guys who are taken and keep trying her luck to get closer to the guy. I've seen so many of such bitches doing shit to my girlfriends!!! Gross max!!! The only time these girls will feel good about themselves is when they manage to take something away from other girls. But you know, there's a saying, "If a guy can be snatched away, he's not the guy you wanna be with" TAKE LAH TAKE LAH, if you can!
So for this, i'm referring to cases when the guy OBVIOUSLY, ALREADY show signs that he DOES NOT want to be involved, DOES NOT want to lead on, this kind of guys, i respect. But if slutbags outside still keep trying her luck, that's when i totally hate.
Tell you how to spot signs okay, when these sluts start to text your bf/ husband things like "Have you eaten?" "How's your day!" "What you doing!!" GIRLS, watch out for text like this from other girls!!!
Right what! No reason why you keep asking somebody else's bf how is he, what he eat, has he shit, WHY YOU ASK SO MUCH?! Got check on your grandma not?! She's your kin, go check on her first! Slutbag! You got ask what your daddy doing now? GO ASK HIM! Maybe some china woman trying to break up your family like how you trying to break up someone's relationship now.
So this is girl power? Thick-skin trying to barge into another couple's life and calling their actions a fight for their own happiness.
Girls getting rape when drunk specifically those that got drunk by own's choice. I don't know how horrible it is to be raped (thou i got molested several times when i was younger) and i DO THINK IT IS HORRIBLE but i'm saying about the got-drunk part. WHY DO YOU GET DRUNK?!
If somebody spiked your drink, use a baton to knock you unconscious, fire a tranquilizer jab on you or karate chop your neck and make you faint, then you get raped, i'd sympathise and this post is not referring to any of these cases.
It's about GETTING DRUNK ON YOUR OWN and get raped later on by some random horny guys.
Very simple logic, you choose to go out, have more fun than everyone else, drink more, get drunk, you didn't choose to get raped but you should have known that this is one of the possibilities.
Yet every single time, when some news talk about some girls who got raped, first thought that goes to most people, "THAT RAPIST IS A BASTARD".
Let's see how you see THIS.. About a girl who got drunk at a club, later follow a guy home (whom she's been dancing with at the club and kissing with in the cab) and then somehow later, she's claiming that she got raped by this guy.
The guy was horny, he needed a screw, he drank too much, he's needed a screw, he picked up a girl from the club, he needed a screw, he had the girl in his house, he needed a screw.
BASICALLY?! BASIC HUMAN/ ANIMAL INSTINCT! He, needed, a, SCREW!
Not saying he's doing anything wrong/ right, he is not my concern, guys are guys. I don't care.
BUT THIS GIRL?!?! See HERE to see HOW DRUNK she was exactly.
Why did she get so drunk?! I mean it's not just her in particular, i don't get why girls get OVERLY drunk. Especially if you know you look decent, not ugly-until-got-immunity-to-horny-fuckers. Then why you get drunk?! Maybe most girls think their friends will take care of them. But why should anyone take care of them if they choose to be drunk and to be a liability for that night? People go drinking/ clubbing to enjoy, not to babysit drunk, attention-seeking and attention-needing girls.
Haiyah, morale of the story is, if you choose to get dead drunk, you're listing "KENA RAPED" as one of your next predicament.
This is why every time i see ST.com on twitter tweeting about this girl got raped, that girl got raped, i feel damn skeptical and cynical! I always think, "REALLY MEH.. She ownself not horny also meh.."
I never got drunk-drunk before but i'm sure when any lady got drunk and is the kind who goes round seducing guys for attention, i believe she enjoyed all the touching, groping, kissing etc. SO, SHE HORNY!!! Then when some unlucky guy got hooked to it, die die want to get it, got it, then later if the girl regret the sex or feel 'dirty', she'd automatically become the victim. Then simple, just go police station, shout rape.
Side-tracking a little, i don't believe it's 100% rape unless the girl is unconscious UNWILLINGLY, or still has the strength and will to fight the guy off. I mean, you can always pretend to be willing, ask for a change of position and when the dick is hanging loose, GRAB THE FUCK OF IT AND REFUSE TO LET GO AND SQUASH IT WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT and kick it and kick it and palm-ball the guy's nose!!! This is how your fight it!!! Not screaming and crying and wasting your energy struggling to fight off the weight on you. Okay lah this is just what i'd do. I'd use trick + evilness + a hell lot of strength to murder his cao lj.
So this is girl power? Being able to shrug off any responsibilities towards yourself so long as you scream "raped", it doesn't even matter if you got drunk and landed yourself there to be raped in the first place. NISE!
Young girl who have intercourse / got pregnant and later some unlucky guy will kena canning and jail for making a underage pregnant. This one, nothing more to elaborate, the guy is fucking stupid (don't know condom?) and the girl is too young to be having sex for her own good.
But i do think the girl is just plain lucky in some way, simply for being a girl, if not why she don't need to go jail? She is partly responsible for this breach of law. No?
See THIS article. This young girl is hopeless. She IS a young little slut herself. If not why she have sex with 15 other guys? You tell me she got rape / forced to have sex, for 15 times? I don't believe. You tell me she is too young and is conned to have sex, for 15 times? i don't believe. You tell me she is a whore in-making, I BELIEVE. If she don't like it, don't enjoy it to choose to do it over and over again with several guys, why did she go meet them?!?!?!
SLUTBAG. Confirm. And she's spared becox? Young, girl, law. And this three is enough to cover up her being totally stupid, loose, undisciplined, shameless, whorish, dirty.
So this is girl power, able to get away for simply being a young girl! Sweeet!
ARGH. I am so angry i don't know why. You'd think i'm speaking up for men, NO, HELL NOT. A lot of men are bastards! But that's their business, i don't care, i have a great bf, and i just have to focus on this one guy. But what i'm talking about here is about GIRLS!!!
Becox a lot of guys cannot control their strength, their desire, their needs, the temptation thrown at them, all the more we girls have to know how to LOVE, PROTECT and VALUE ourselves!!!
Don't always make yourself up to be the victim. The loser. The unwanted. The weak. You are old enough to speak, to act, to think for yourself.
Haiyah, you want to see motivational quotes, go google. All i'm saying is, love yourself and you'd know you're worth a lot more to be doing/ allowing silly things onto yourself.
P/S: This is not about girls who unwillingly have horrible things happen to them.
P/P/S: I think men who sexually abuse the helpless kids, make unconscious girls to sexually abuse them, i think they deserve to be castrated, 100% totally, CASTRATION FTW.
I am SO SICK of reading/ hearing of cases about LOVE and SEX and how woman ALWAYS victimised themselves..
LOVE OH LOVE~
Girl broke up with boyfriend and playing the melodramatic victim, especially when the guy is currently seeing someone else, AFTER the breakup.
If you quietly still love the fella, nobody will diss you. Everyone has the right to love someone, anyone. But when you openly shows it to everyone around you, by..
-Blogging about it
-Facebooking it
-Tweeting it
-Sending text messages to the guy, and secretly wishing that it'd cause problems between him and the current gf so somehow, you still occupy a part of his life (ADMIT THIS)
-Sending text messages to the guy at the oddest hours, hoping that he'd feel bad for you that you are still awake at 5am, thinking about him..
-Messaging him on special days that used to mean something to you two and end with a "i know all these doesn't matter to you anymore, i understand why. Just hope we can still be friends" (DON'T BLUFF, LOSER SHIT)
-Buying something for him and asking if you could meet him to pass it to him (NO, THROW IT AWAY)
-mention on social platform that you're sad, you're drunk, you're fucked up, you're crying, you're lost, you wish that you can turn back time, you want to believe again, your heart still aches, you're still hanging on and for that you hate yourself........
HEY HEY HEY, STOP IT, YOU JUST NEED A VIBRATOR, DUDE!
On a side note, i really hate emo girls. IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT THEM. And it's not even in the cute, funny way. I am all about me as well, but it's positive stuff!!! Them, it's always negative, moody, sad, same story over and over again, to different people. Desperate for the world to hear their side of the story, and they expect people to, what? Sympathize with them? Agree with them that they are very poor thing? Or agree with them that the current gf of the ex bf is not as good as they are.
SURE, that's why they are current girlfriend, you are EX-Girlfriend -.-
You don't need to prove anything to anyone, during a healing process for your broken heart. You just need to prove to yourself that you can love and take care of yourself. 不要整天扮可怜.
Tie your hair up, wash your face, dress up nice, head out, work, buy a dildo, keep yourself occupied, don't, DON'T, DO NOT talk about your ex bf whole day when you're out with people. Honestly, nobody gives a shit, there's a reason why it's ex, meaning it's over. Time to? MOVE ON.
And don't go home after gathering to tweet/ Facebook shout emo shit like
"when the crowd is gone, lights are out, my heart bleeds.. Again.." or
"Surrounded by many but my life is empty.. Without you.." or
"I try to ask myself to let you go, forced a smile to everyone i meet, tell myself i'm happy, but inside, i'm still the girl you left behind"
EEEEEEeeeeee! I say already also erxin! Eh i never copy anywhere one hor, i made these up myself. HAHAHA! Sorry no, i was NEVER a irritating ex-girlfriend. In fact, i totally despise girls who try all ways to stay in the ex-boyfriends' lives.
In hokkien, we say "Pa Si Buay Zao" Lolol! It means, beat die also won't go away.
So, girl power, is to be able to stick and hang around, act all pitiful thus the guy you want can't bear to kick you out of his life?
Girls seeing married men getting all pissed and saddened when the guy is with the wife/ family. The only incident i think you can relate to would be Wendy Chong the psycho bitch.
I don't care if Jack Neo is a dick, or not, but that woman is a confirm psycho. Everyone gotta know where they stand. Wanna be mistress? GO AHEAD! Just stay kept, you know, there's a reason why mistress is a.k.a Kept Woman. Don't try to break into fame / come to light with your identity, NOTHING GLORIOUS about it. GROSS MUCH!!!!!!!! ARGH. See! Perfect example of not knowing where they stand.
I have nothing against girls seeing attached/ married guy. I mean who knows? The guy's marriage might really be in the most shitty situation, you happen to meet the guy, fall in love, decides to wait for him patiently while he settle shit with the wife. Maybe the wife is a major psycho, you can be his pillar and strength of support. Maybe the wife and the guy REALLY don't love each other no more, maybe you are the one for him, the one who will be with him til old, WHATEVER, but now, YOU ARE A MISTRESS, you behave like one.
If you sign up for a relationship like this, to fill in the second place, then live with it. You can feel sad when he choose to leave halfway through a date to go home to his wife/ children, but you have no rights to be angry, no rights to demand for anything, no rights to feel betrayed even if the guy has pity-sex with the wife.
Why so unfair, you'd always asked. You are having fun with someone's husband, WHAT IS FAIR? *rolleyes*
So this is girl power? Part-occupying someone else's stuff and feeling all shitty it's not fully yours, when it rightfully belongs to someone else.
Girls who are especially drawn to guys who are taken and keep trying her luck to get closer to the guy. I've seen so many of such bitches doing shit to my girlfriends!!! Gross max!!! The only time these girls will feel good about themselves is when they manage to take something away from other girls. But you know, there's a saying, "If a guy can be snatched away, he's not the guy you wanna be with" TAKE LAH TAKE LAH, if you can!
So for this, i'm referring to cases when the guy OBVIOUSLY, ALREADY show signs that he DOES NOT want to be involved, DOES NOT want to lead on, this kind of guys, i respect. But if slutbags outside still keep trying her luck, that's when i totally hate.
Tell you how to spot signs okay, when these sluts start to text your bf/ husband things like "Have you eaten?" "How's your day!" "What you doing!!" GIRLS, watch out for text like this from other girls!!!
Right what! No reason why you keep asking somebody else's bf how is he, what he eat, has he shit, WHY YOU ASK SO MUCH?! Got check on your grandma not?! She's your kin, go check on her first! Slutbag! You got ask what your daddy doing now? GO ASK HIM! Maybe some china woman trying to break up your family like how you trying to break up someone's relationship now.
So this is girl power? Thick-skin trying to barge into another couple's life and calling their actions a fight for their own happiness.
SEX OH SEX~
Girls getting rape when drunk specifically those that got drunk by own's choice. I don't know how horrible it is to be raped (thou i got molested several times when i was younger) and i DO THINK IT IS HORRIBLE but i'm saying about the got-drunk part. WHY DO YOU GET DRUNK?!
If somebody spiked your drink, use a baton to knock you unconscious, fire a tranquilizer jab on you or karate chop your neck and make you faint, then you get raped, i'd sympathise and this post is not referring to any of these cases.
It's about GETTING DRUNK ON YOUR OWN and get raped later on by some random horny guys.
Very simple logic, you choose to go out, have more fun than everyone else, drink more, get drunk, you didn't choose to get raped but you should have known that this is one of the possibilities.
Yet every single time, when some news talk about some girls who got raped, first thought that goes to most people, "THAT RAPIST IS A BASTARD".
Let's see how you see THIS.. About a girl who got drunk at a club, later follow a guy home (whom she's been dancing with at the club and kissing with in the cab) and then somehow later, she's claiming that she got raped by this guy.
The guy was horny, he needed a screw, he drank too much, he's needed a screw, he picked up a girl from the club, he needed a screw, he had the girl in his house, he needed a screw.
BASICALLY?! BASIC HUMAN/ ANIMAL INSTINCT! He, needed, a, SCREW!
Not saying he's doing anything wrong/ right, he is not my concern, guys are guys. I don't care.
BUT THIS GIRL?!?! See HERE to see HOW DRUNK she was exactly.
Why did she get so drunk?! I mean it's not just her in particular, i don't get why girls get OVERLY drunk. Especially if you know you look decent, not ugly-until-got-immunity-to-horny-fuckers. Then why you get drunk?! Maybe most girls think their friends will take care of them. But why should anyone take care of them if they choose to be drunk and to be a liability for that night? People go drinking/ clubbing to enjoy, not to babysit drunk, attention-seeking and attention-needing girls.
Haiyah, morale of the story is, if you choose to get dead drunk, you're listing "KENA RAPED" as one of your next predicament.
This is why every time i see ST.com on twitter tweeting about this girl got raped, that girl got raped, i feel damn skeptical and cynical! I always think, "REALLY MEH.. She ownself not horny also meh.."
I never got drunk-drunk before but i'm sure when any lady got drunk and is the kind who goes round seducing guys for attention, i believe she enjoyed all the touching, groping, kissing etc. SO, SHE HORNY!!! Then when some unlucky guy got hooked to it, die die want to get it, got it, then later if the girl regret the sex or feel 'dirty', she'd automatically become the victim. Then simple, just go police station, shout rape.
Side-tracking a little, i don't believe it's 100% rape unless the girl is unconscious UNWILLINGLY, or still has the strength and will to fight the guy off. I mean, you can always pretend to be willing, ask for a change of position and when the dick is hanging loose, GRAB THE FUCK OF IT AND REFUSE TO LET GO AND SQUASH IT WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT and kick it and kick it and palm-ball the guy's nose!!! This is how your fight it!!! Not screaming and crying and wasting your energy struggling to fight off the weight on you. Okay lah this is just what i'd do. I'd use trick + evilness + a hell lot of strength to murder his cao lj.
So this is girl power? Being able to shrug off any responsibilities towards yourself so long as you scream "raped", it doesn't even matter if you got drunk and landed yourself there to be raped in the first place. NISE!
Young girl who have intercourse / got pregnant and later some unlucky guy will kena canning and jail for making a underage pregnant. This one, nothing more to elaborate, the guy is fucking stupid (don't know condom?) and the girl is too young to be having sex for her own good.
But i do think the girl is just plain lucky in some way, simply for being a girl, if not why she don't need to go jail? She is partly responsible for this breach of law. No?
See THIS article. This young girl is hopeless. She IS a young little slut herself. If not why she have sex with 15 other guys? You tell me she got rape / forced to have sex, for 15 times? I don't believe. You tell me she is too young and is conned to have sex, for 15 times? i don't believe. You tell me she is a whore in-making, I BELIEVE. If she don't like it, don't enjoy it to choose to do it over and over again with several guys, why did she go meet them?!?!?!
SLUTBAG. Confirm. And she's spared becox? Young, girl, law. And this three is enough to cover up her being totally stupid, loose, undisciplined, shameless, whorish, dirty.
So this is girl power, able to get away for simply being a young girl! Sweeet!
ARGH. I am so angry i don't know why. You'd think i'm speaking up for men, NO, HELL NOT. A lot of men are bastards! But that's their business, i don't care, i have a great bf, and i just have to focus on this one guy. But what i'm talking about here is about GIRLS!!!
Becox a lot of guys cannot control their strength, their desire, their needs, the temptation thrown at them, all the more we girls have to know how to LOVE, PROTECT and VALUE ourselves!!!
Don't always make yourself up to be the victim. The loser. The unwanted. The weak. You are old enough to speak, to act, to think for yourself.
Haiyah, you want to see motivational quotes, go google. All i'm saying is, love yourself and you'd know you're worth a lot more to be doing/ allowing silly things onto yourself.
P/S: This is not about girls who unwillingly have horrible things happen to them.
P/P/S: I think men who sexually abuse the helpless kids, make unconscious girls to sexually abuse them, i think they deserve to be castrated, 100% totally, CASTRATION FTW.